Im adding these to my list. I have a tranny at work. Unconsciously referred to him as a "he"when explaining something. I said, "No he is talking about blah blah." Oops Ill tell you a little known fact, if you call a tranny a "he" in a group setting, and then apologize profusely in front of the whole group, it is like shining light on a vampire. The reaction is priceless because you just put the larp front and center. Because what you're really saying is, "im sorry i forgot you were pretending to be a woman and i forgot to go along with the charade. You'll never pass as a woman and all you're doing is making everyone uncomfortable." I feel no remorse because by asking me to pretend you're a female, you are trying to get me to mind fuck myself into telling my brain that what im actually seeing is not what is in front of me. Unfortunately you have to be smart about it if you want to keep your job. But not calling this out or not psychologically wrecking these people is what got us into this mess in the first place. Don't let them screw with your head.