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LOL She's probably caught in the act of the embrace.

But, a comment is needed!

If you're a male performer, you will have females who want to have a picture taken with you. There will also be kids.

There will also be a lot of cameras - more a problem today than it used to be.

It's a bit awkward but you should learn to always keep your hands clearly visible and, if you can get away with it, ensure absolute minimum contact.

When you put your arm around them, you reach over their head - so that your hand remains visible. You step in and ahead, so they can't rub their tits all over you and say you instigated it.

If there's any doubt, look carefully at some of the pictures taken with performing artists. Look again - but look carefully. In many instances, we're not even touching the person we're in the picture with. We'll hold our arm out behind their neck and put our hand over their shoulder, or around their arm - but not actually touch them. This works, because pictures are usually taken from the front - check some pictures and look carefully where the shadows lie.

This is a long, long subject - but I figured I'd toss this out there. We're very, very careful about how we embrace and I can imagine it's easier for her, given that she doesn't have a penis. It's a strange thing that many people don't ever have to think about, but we do.

This isn't actually anything new, at least not in my experience. It's just far more common, with everyone carrying around a camera on their phone.

Some artists will still touch and hug, just like normal. However, look carefully - and you'll find many of them also have someone who can observe them from all hidden angles - and possibly is observing them, just to be able to confirm that nothing happened.

This isn't always the case and I pay much more attention to this than I used to - but that's also because I have more to be sued for and there's a fucking ton of cameras out there.

Still, it's something many folks don't realize and won't actually ever get to experience. It's pretty much a mini version of Things Look Very Different From The Stage.

[–] [deleted] 2 pts

HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!

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just noticed she's also clutching her purse instinctively!