'...he also didn’t do anything to try and win me back.' 'Since then, he’s lost weight and seems to have lots of new friends and hobbies.' LOL Takeaways: He doesn't consider her a 'Prize', because she doesn't present any value to him. She was clearly an impediment to his being the best man he could be. Introspection she should undertake: What were you doing to actively obstruct his growth as a man? 34 Years, 19 Days since I met my wife. I lift more, run farther, and I have more real friends than I did when I was a 22 year old single... LOL