No, dude, you made the mistake of destroying her self-esteem and forcing her into the position of spiting you and leaving you in order to regain her sense of self-worth. You made it literally impossible for her to feel attractive, valued and respected because she changed her body in a way you found utterly repulsive, and rather than stay in a relationship with someone who is repulsed by her, she was better off leaving you in hopes of finding someone who accepted her chosen appearance changes and made her feel like a sex queen. You're the one who fucked it up dude, if she was the love of your life then you could have dealt with the tattoos. You had your head up your ass and were only really thinking of yourself, she figured it out, and you parted ways. "Caring about your feelings" doesn't include letting you make her feel worthless and then convincing herself to feel thankful you tolerate her stupid choices and repulsive body. Don't get this twisted, I'm not defending your ex, I literally hate women and couldn't give a fuck less about them, but you are retarded and have a warped, ignorant perception of why things went the way they did. Women are feelings-driven. I'll say it again: you attacked her self-esteem and made yourself into something she had to prove wrong and escape from in order to re-establish her sense of being valuable and attractive. She might have gotten a stupid tattoo, but you're the one who decided it was cool to take "the love of your life" literally for granted and demean the fuck out of her over a superficial feature because you had a difference in taste. Own that shit dude, you're not the victim, you shot holes in your own boat and then couldn't figure out why it sank; what she's become in the time after your breakup is irrelevant.