I think if we keep telling the truth over time our family's will start recognizing the pattern too. It took me years with a willingness to learn. Other people who aren't eager to learn will take 2x as many years before they understand. More years before they agree. I saw a smart guy on a debate recently. He was actually trying to defend the Talmud. He seemed like a good faith debater and he said "I'm not trying to make you agree with me I'm just trying to make you understand me." I think there is a profound nuance between those 2 things and sometimes in my past I have struggled with trying to make people agree with me when it might be smarter to just help people understand the lexicon and cast of characters we discuss. Consistency and always telling the truth and always being wholesome. We're here to build the future and preserve traditions from the past. Not destroy. Destruction frightens fence sitters. They're not ready for hate and will be frightened by our displays of hate like when discussing the holomodor or Hollywood.