I just think that's the way I'd do it when I make a mistake when chosing a girlfriend I don't cheat I leave or she does. I don't put sex ahead of it all and fuck some ramdom chick to find a better piece of ass. I jack it or go without till I find the new one then I start again new. Hate breeds hate, love breeds love, it's all going to come back to us if we do it to others eventually even in the end when we are before him at time of judging our deeds. I'd seriously just talk to women and let them know you're in a bad place and need someone real and feminine and what you don't want or will not tolerate in your life from a woman you will marry one day and choose for a mother of your child. Remember truth is everything, it not getting it at work find a new job, home find a new woman, friends later see ya dude, in yourself then find yourself or change yourself and grow into the man you deserve to be the man you can respect and all this takes time. Leaving without kids not long, with kids, no telling how long, friends instant, job well can be instant but smarter if after new job found with contract since without they can fuck you over been there. So don't just react but plan or use your good judgement with care since snap decisions can have long term consequences but thought out and then calmly executed can have long term rewards especially relationships.