Just a friendly reminder, they tried to not even let me get to see my grandpa's body the day he died. If you think you will have a space when you are old where you are cared for by white people think again, you better start today actually raising and having an active hand in your family around you so when the day comes they can at least pray over your body when you are dead and even better be the ones caring for you. I only got to see him because I had to be a raging cunt to all parties involved, politeness and kindness got me nothing