The Oxford English Dictionary traces singular they back to 1375, where it appears in the medieval romance William and the Werewolf. Except for the old-style language of that poem, its use of singular they to refer to an unnamed person seems very modern. Here’s the Middle English version: ‘Hastely hiȝed eche . . . þei neyȝþed so neiȝh . . . þere william & his worþi lef were liand i-fere.’ In modern English, that’s: ‘Each man hurried . . . till they drew near . . . where William and his darling were lying together.’
Masculine is more common, more recently. Digging up an obscure usage is a straw man feminists and democrats use.
If being in common use up to a few years ago is obscure, then color me Pliny.
I think you're just way too concerned about pronouns.
If being less concerned is more virtuous, then just use masculine and be the bigger man.
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