You should be both,
It doesn't work that way. These are two very distinct psychological positions in a child's mind. If you think you are walking that line you are deluding yourself and have no idea what is actually happening.
Parents who are cold and distant
You do not have to be cold and distant to be a parent. That is completely wrong. Parents are loving and caring. You have incorrectly correlated love and kindness with friendship. No kid should be under the impression that thier friends care and love them more than thier parents.
>It doesn't work that way. These are two very distinct psychological positions in a child's mind. If you think you are walking that line you are deluding yourself and have no idea what is actually happening. Absolute and complete bullshit.
Absolute and complete bullshit.
You are trash tier retarded. A parental figure is insanely different than a friend figure. This can be seen in dogs and ALL animals. With who the animal respects and follows the most - the alpha - is the "parent" of the group.
Have you asked many dogs about who their friends are? Have you talked to them about the distinct psychological positions of their family members?
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