I am a husband and father. People hit on my wife all the time. That isn't something I have the power to stop. She could dress in the most modest way possible and it wouldn't stop. My girls will grow up into women as much as I hate the idea and boys will pursue them and I might just kill them all. However I probably won't and they are human beings that might have sex and give me grand children some day. Sexuality is part of being human. It isn't avoidable. My father in law still hates me and I've been married to my wife for almost 13 years and we dated for over 5 years before we married. Women will show off skin it will happen. I don't want my kids to do it but they will. I can appreciate the female form without lusting after it. Thats an important distinction to make. You don't have to lust after every girl you see in a bikini. I'm not saying women should walk around in bikinis they shouldn't but its on men to take responsibility and look at it for what it is. Women playing a game. One we should avoid playing.