This really is the truth! Take care of yourself! Do everything you can to better yourself! Someone who will be a good partner and fit for you will show up, but only if you stop looking so hard for that person and instead simply take care of yourself. If you are looking for someone to take care of you just might find someone. You would greatly regret this! You Never get finished taking care of them! Their need to be cared for will only get larger! It will eventually get to the point that, no matter what you do, you can never do enough to take care of them! Those are the terms You place on the relationship from the start! You hunted for that! So that's what you will get!