handicaps are matters of OPINION. Not getting along with MOST everybody is a HANDICAP. I'm autistic (but NOT retarded sort). I went to grad school on FULL scholarship (and GOT to that point similarly) + stipend (computer science). Hospital (child) told mom my brain was abnormal (what mom told ME) actually I don't know what they told her, I wasn't allowed to hear that. Mom's strategy? BE NORMAL. anyway...blah blah blah. shutup.