Do all men circle the corpses of other men waiting for their turn at a poke with the dead man's wife? I didn't know that. I honestly thought only vultures did such things. Most of the men I have met since my husband died have perfect gentlemen, I only encountered 3 vultures. Or are you feeling guilty for something you've done? Are you under the false impression that all men are as sick and twisted as you? I can assure you that they are not and that you are a minority in your perversion.