Oml. That sounds very intense and narcissistic as all of his actions, no matter his intentions are being used as a tool to manipulate you and your daughter. Maybe it's not intentional and he's pushing you away bc of anger but conflicted bc he still wants you there. I understand much better now when you say you are waiting on the jet plane. I could deconstruct this from a thousand different angles, but if you just want me to shut up, I'll just listen, too :) DMs and TG are always open to you, friend.