Yeah, some of these guys are sad lovers, but there's a lot of guys in their 30s and 40s that are happily married with families and enjoy buying Legos or comics as a hobby because that's what they wanted when they were young. Previous generations of men had equally worthless hobbies like rebuilding antique cars, because they grew up wanting those kind of cars. So sorry to break it to you, but buying cars as a middle age man is the same as buying luxury Lego sets.