And most middle class whites who use this already chose food/obesity or muh career over having a family. Family was second to a lot of them. That’s why they’re careless and selfish with the method they use to have kids. Even when it’s not their fault, being infertile isn’t an excuse to traumatize babies or use women. At one point I believed I was unable to have more kids(through no fault of my own, I was a victim of medical malpractice). I wanted a big family. Surrogacy was never an option for me bc I’m not selfish, would never want to cause a baby to feel separated from the woman who carried them. That’s so wrong. Idk how you can support that.