The harm is different in that the effects are different, but it is still grave harm and should be punished just as severely. That statement is just as stupid as “black people cant be racist.” No, there is not one class or demographic of people that can’t be predatory or racist, anyone who claims that is completely retarded or purposely lying to advance an agenda. What if that agenda is that they want boys to be warped by sexual assault? Then they can’t form healthy, monogamous sexual relationships. Which means no healthy families and no more good fathers.