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I don't want to date again, I don't even know if my brain would be able to support a new relationship. It has this idea of intimacy, but only for someone who'se no longer alive. And yet my brain feels completely numbed out since then. I sometimes entertain the idea, and yet even I did get into a relationship again, I would become incredibly sad within a week and hate myself. And yet, not being in a relationship just makes me incredibly lonely. I have no idea how to get out of this bullshit mental trap, I fucking hate it. I just wish there was an easy solution out of this mess

I don't want to date again, I don't even know if my brain would be able to support a new relationship. It has this idea of intimacy, but only for someone who'se no longer alive. And yet my brain feels completely numbed out since then. I sometimes entertain the idea, and yet even I did get into a relationship again, I would become incredibly sad within a week and hate myself. And yet, not being in a relationship just makes me incredibly lonely. I have no idea how to get out of this bullshit mental trap, I fucking hate it. I just wish there was an easy solution out of this mess

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[–] • 1 pt

Are you a man?

You think she would think highly of you sitting around whining like a little bitch?

Either date someone new or accept that you don't want to, it really is that simple. If you figure out you made the wrong choice then fine, try the other one.

[–] • 1 pt

You think she would think highly of you sitting around whining like a little bitch?

This. Sounds a little corny, but when it comes to lost loved ones, if you're having trouble with the loss, try to imagine them watching you from Heaven or another dimension or w/e. What would they say to you? Would they want you to be miserable and dwell on their death forever? Probably not. They'd probably want you to remember them fondly, and then go on to live a full, happy life.