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Not sure why, she seemed to be interested, but she hasn't texted back in a few days. Maybe she be busy, but im guessing she's lost interest and give me the ol deny message later on in the week. Part of me wonders why women dont just tell you ahead of time they aren't interested, instead of wasting your time like this. As the old saying goes, if they're old and single, there's usually a reason why.

What i dont get is why she even agreed to a date in the first place

Not sure why, she seemed to be interested, but she hasn't texted back in a few days. Maybe she be busy, but im guessing she's lost interest and give me the ol deny message later on in the week. Part of me wonders why women dont just tell you ahead of time they aren't interested, instead of wasting your time like this. As the old saying goes, if they're old and single, there's usually a reason why. What i dont get is why she even agreed to a date in the first place

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[–] [deleted] • 0 pt

Some people, male and female, do not handle rejection very well. I've watched (mostly) dudes get rejected, then proceed to harass and physically threaten/harm the female. It's way more common than you realize.

Hence, the ghosting. It's safer to just ghost. She doesn't know you like that. For all she knows, you might come after her... and since you're not exactly alpha material, it's not at all exciting to her to be perused by you.

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Fair point, it may also be the harsh quips against society. I always start off every conversation with some variation of the world is a lie, look beyond the deception, or some kind of analytical position on why Jews deserve the gas chambers. Needless to say ... my methods may be off putting to some. A good example of one woman I talked to.

Her: Hey OP how are you? Me: There's too many niggers in my neighborhood Her: Why you so racist OP? Me: Niggers arent people

And then it usually ends