After a lot of comments and heated issues on my side, i finally decided to communicate my issues with her and see what was what. The reason for the miscommunications are easy enough, this person is horribly inexperienced in dating. By her own words she was in only ONE long term relationship, which ended close to a decade ago. Beyond that, either she's lying, or this person has NEVER been in an LTR beyond her 20s. Either way, the complete lack of knowing what to do makes complete sense now
She also has a very long and exhaustive laundry list of what she doesn't want to date. However, by her own standards, i made a joke that absolutely NO ONE in her entire city(a city of many many millions) would even fit that bill. We're not talking no profanity, there's height restrictions, income restrictions, faith based restrictions, conspiracy theory restrictions, no divorcess, no kids, no tattoos, no swearing, no sex before marriage, etc. Honestly, at this point im even surprised she wants to talk to me since I fail close to 25% of her dealbreaker list.
My only question is whether she's a virgin or not. On one hand she says she wants to wait until marriage, implying purity. On the other hand she had an LTR many moons ago, and let's be honest, young kids are hardly known for making sound judgement calls when it comes to sexuality. However, if the guy cheated on her, she was most likely chaste at the time, and he cheated on her which means her virginity is intact. OR they were banging and the guy was a complete dipshit
After a lot of comments and heated issues on my side, i finally decided to communicate my issues with her and see what was what. The reason for the miscommunications are easy enough, this person is horribly inexperienced in dating. By her own words she was in only ONE long term relationship, which ended close to a decade ago. Beyond that, either she's lying, or this person has NEVER been in an LTR beyond her 20s. Either way, the complete lack of knowing what to do makes complete sense now
She also has a very long and exhaustive laundry list of what she doesn't want to date. However, by her own standards, i made a joke that absolutely NO ONE in her entire city(a city of many many millions) would even fit that bill. We're not talking no profanity, there's height restrictions, income restrictions, faith based restrictions, conspiracy theory restrictions, no divorcess, no kids, no tattoos, no swearing, no sex before marriage, etc. Honestly, at this point im even surprised she wants to talk to me since I fail close to 25% of her dealbreaker list.
My only question is whether she's a virgin or not. On one hand she says she wants to wait until marriage, implying purity. On the other hand she had an LTR many moons ago, and let's be honest, young kids are hardly known for making sound judgement calls when it comes to sexuality. However, if the guy cheated on her, she was most likely chaste at the time, and he cheated on her which means her virginity is intact. OR they were banging and the guy was a complete dipshit
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