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After a lot of comments and heated issues on my side, i finally decided to communicate my issues with her and see what was what. The reason for the miscommunications are easy enough, this person is horribly inexperienced in dating. By her own words she was in only ONE long term relationship, which ended close to a decade ago. Beyond that, either she's lying, or this person has NEVER been in an LTR beyond her 20s. Either way, the complete lack of knowing what to do makes complete sense now

She also has a very long and exhaustive laundry list of what she doesn't want to date. However, by her own standards, i made a joke that absolutely NO ONE in her entire city(a city of many many millions) would even fit that bill. We're not talking no profanity, there's height restrictions, income restrictions, faith based restrictions, conspiracy theory restrictions, no divorcess, no kids, no tattoos, no swearing, no sex before marriage, etc. Honestly, at this point im even surprised she wants to talk to me since I fail close to 25% of her dealbreaker list.

My only question is whether she's a virgin or not. On one hand she says she wants to wait until marriage, implying purity. On the other hand she had an LTR many moons ago, and let's be honest, young kids are hardly known for making sound judgement calls when it comes to sexuality. However, if the guy cheated on her, she was most likely chaste at the time, and he cheated on her which means her virginity is intact. OR they were banging and the guy was a complete dipshit

After a lot of comments and heated issues on my side, i finally decided to communicate my issues with her and see what was what. The reason for the miscommunications are easy enough, this person is horribly inexperienced in dating. By her own words she was in only ONE long term relationship, which ended close to a decade ago. Beyond that, either she's lying, or this person has NEVER been in an LTR beyond her 20s. Either way, the complete lack of knowing what to do makes complete sense now She also has a very long and exhaustive laundry list of what she doesn't want to date. However, by her own standards, i made a joke that absolutely NO ONE in her entire city(a city of many many millions) would even fit that bill. We're not talking no profanity, there's height restrictions, income restrictions, faith based restrictions, conspiracy theory restrictions, no divorcess, no kids, no tattoos, no swearing, no sex before marriage, etc. Honestly, at this point im even surprised she wants to talk to me since I fail close to 25% of her dealbreaker list. My only question is whether she's a virgin or not. On one hand she says she wants to wait until marriage, implying purity. On the other hand she had an LTR many moons ago, and let's be honest, young kids are hardly known for making sound judgement calls when it comes to sexuality. However, if the guy cheated on her, she was most likely chaste at the time, and he cheated on her which means her virginity is intact. OR they were banging and the guy was a complete dipshit

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[–] [deleted] • 0 pt

If she's in her 30s she is not a virgin, no matter what she says. The long list of rules is just an excuse to explain why she is still single. If she was only in one ltr then she was sleeping around, no matter how chaste she pretends to be.

You're projecting your fantasy of an ideal woman on her and she's all too happy to go along with your illusion of her.

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If she's in her 30s she is not a virgin, no matter what she says.

She hasn't stated she is, but implied it by stating she wants to wait until marriage before giving it up. Part of me wonders if this is a long term strategy to lock in a simp, without having to overtly admit she was a slut in her prior life. On one hand she also claims she needs a lot of time to know someone before officially dating, but then she gets super slutty at times. So her behavior is super confusing, and comes off as ... erratic or even manic

The long list of rules is just an excuse to explain why she is still single.

She's not bad looking by any means (I would say she looks an 8 or 9, and could easily snag any guy she wants), so im honestly confused why she's still single at such a late age. The excuses are also completely arbitrary, since by her own list of wants, absolutely no one in the existence of the universe outside Jesus Christ himself would even fit the requirements list.

If she was only in one ltr then she was sleeping around, no matter how chaste she pretends to be.

That's the thing, her life story is very confusing to me. On one hand she only had one LTR at a very young age and it didn't work out. On the other hand, she has not had a single LTR that lasted more than a few months since then. And being chaste/ a virgin so late in life is very very unlikely, so why bother even lying about it?

You're projecting your fantasy of an ideal woman on her and she's all too happy to go along with your illusion of her.

So ... she's hitting the wall at warp speed and needs to re image herself to at least have a chance of finding a guy who isn't a complete degenerate faggot