Continuing in the avenues of confusion, I am now even more confused.
She said she wants to not settle, and that she knows there are some works involved in any relationship, but refuses to compromise even a little bit on the idea that not everyone she dates is gonna be perfect. She also mentioned she regretted breaking up so early with some of her ex boyfriends. She essentially wants a turnkey boyfriend, that already has everything she wants, instead of realizing that such a thing doesn't exist
She claims she wants to not date me anymore, but agreed to another date. This confuses me to no end, because it's become clear this person is incredibly insecure and projecting her own issues back onto me. This is why she can maintain two completely opposite states of mind, and still somehow make it seem logical in her brain. So essentially, she wanted admiration from me, so she pulled the old im leaving you to see what my reaction would be.
She's a complete novice in dating, and from what i can tell, she doesn't really know what she's looking for in a boyfriend. She claims she wants a friend, a best friend, a partner, a husband, etc. But all those different things belong in different categories, so she wants some kind of boyfriend that is a transient category of everything at once. Again, this shows she's very new to dating, and has close to no clue what it is she actually wants
Continuing in the avenues of confusion, I am now even more confused.
* She said she wants to not settle, and that she knows there are some works involved in any relationship, but refuses to compromise even a little bit on the idea that not everyone she dates is gonna be perfect. She also mentioned she regretted breaking up so early with some of her ex boyfriends. She essentially wants a turnkey boyfriend, that already has everything she wants, instead of realizing that such a thing doesn't exist
* She claims she wants to not date me anymore, but agreed to another date. This confuses me to no end, because it's become clear this person is incredibly insecure and projecting her own issues back onto me. This is why she can maintain two completely opposite states of mind, and still somehow make it seem logical in her brain. So essentially, she wanted admiration from me, so she pulled the old im leaving you to see what my reaction would be.
* She's a complete novice in dating, and from what i can tell, she doesn't really know what she's looking for in a boyfriend. She claims she wants a friend, a best friend, a partner, a husband, etc. But all those different things belong in different categories, so she wants some kind of boyfriend that is a transient category of everything at once. Again, this shows she's very new to dating, and has close to no clue what it is she actually wants
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