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3 back to back meetings, all useless crap i dont care about. especially women, they just rant on and on about useless trash no one cares about, or talking about stuff that was already discussed. all it does is waste time, its like these idiots just love to talk, and drag meetings way longer than they should be. than they complain about how long the meetings are ... because of you

3 back to back meetings, all useless crap i dont care about. especially women, they just rant on and on about useless trash no one cares about, or talking about stuff that was already discussed. all it does is waste time, its like these idiots just love to talk, and drag meetings way longer than they should be. than they complain about how long the meetings are ... because of you

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"Surrounded by Idiots" author Thomas Erikson designates them as the "inspiring 'yellow' " type whereas you would in this situation be a Red.

I might as well get straight to the point here to avoid confusion: Yellows talk more than they work. They have a penchant for talking about everything they need to do rather than actually doing anything. Everyone who knows a genuine Yellow knows exactly what I’m talking about.

Okay, so many people have trouble getting motivated to work, especially with boring tasks. But Yellows find it particularly hard to leave the starting block when faced with uncomfortable tasks. It may be about having to call a dissatisfied customer, or getting an oil change, or going to the pharmacy. If it’s dull and uninspiring, it won’t happen. Their excuses for avoiding these tasks will be numerous and imaginative.

Because a Yellow’s perspective on time is based in the future, they spend more time talking about the future than dedicating their energy to getting there. Seldom have so many crazy plans been drawn up or so many insane goals set as is done by Yellows. Because they think aloud, people around them believe that these fantasies are going to happen: “Wow! It sounds amazing!”

Conclusion: To help your Yellow friend you need to make sure that he puts his shovel in the ground and starts digging Push him, but push gently. Treat him a little bit like you would treat a child. Be kind but clear. If he notices that you’re becoming his taskmaster, things may become difficult. Yellows hate feeling controlled. They need the most help to get into gear, but that doesn’t mean they like it. They are free souls and don’t obey anyone else.

So you need to be diplomatic. Softly and gently explain the value of actually doing the job itself, now that he knows what needs to be done. Take a moment to explain to a Yellow how the great popularity he already enjoys can actually be increased even further if he just happens to get finished. Everyone will love him, and he will be more beloved than ever. Does that sound simple? It is simple. All you need to do is overcome your resistance to inflating someone’s ego in such an obvious way. But it will work.