Send the irs a letter about her just for laughs.
projection, accuse someone else of what you're doing. I wonder how much she would owe back if the welfare office found out what she was doing ....
Send the irs a letter about her just for laughs.
projection, accuse someone else of what you're doing. I wonder how much she would owe back if the welfare office found out what she was doing ....
You're probably on a hiding to nothing
I don't know enough about your situation to make a balanced view, I'm seeing some red flags from you, not sure I care enough to expand upon that.
Has she asked you to save or eject her, sounds more like a power struggle between you and her mom, that's never going to end well. If you think it will, enjoy the ride but make sure they're your gf's motivations and not yours.
I've seen it a million times and picked up the pieces when I was a counselor, many years ago.
The gf has expressed she wants to be ejected out of the situation but simply is unsure how to do so. She's been terraformed to become hopelessly dependent on the mom through financial and emotional means, making the ejection with no outside help impossible. The more boundaries, etc she's put up, the harsher those boundaries have been destroyed by the mom.
I can be seen as overly agressive at times, but ive also seen how this plays out before. However this is becoming a power struggle between what my gf wants and her mom forcing her will back into the equations.
Sounds like a tough spot to be in, just support her but constantly check your motivation, I say that not to be horrible but to ensure you're doing the right thing. If it all goes wrong I guarantee that everyone, gf included will turn on you if there's no other choice.
I will take you at your word, hopefully it all works out for you and your gf.
I'm not trying to sound like a cunt but I have seen it many times and seen it go south many times. If you're doing everything from a support point of view, you really can't lose because it will effectively be your gf finding her feet and standing up to them with your support. That will put your relationship with her in the best place possible
Good luck man.
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