>How can I get my brother to recognize and change his petty behavior? That's rich! >he’s a grown man, while my daughter is young and just starting out. The argument is the rich uncle should see past this petty behavior by the niece. But the niece is entitled to be petty because she's young. This is so leftist. Normal people need to look past pettiness of the left yet the left should not. The same argument is always made to white people being tolerant of the "marginalized". We need to be respectful of the marginalized community while not ever expecting them to reciprocate with the same courtesy. Ever! If a jogger breaks in to your home, be tolerant of him because he's disadvantaged. It's not OK to expect joggers to abide by white laws. It's also not OK to defend yourself.