I'm not saying there aren't some hideous looking people who might do that out of desperation, but most are born that way, or at least it shows up young. I'm not a fucking scientist, so I don't know if it's genetic or something else, but my gut tells me it's hard wired. Everyone knew the gay kids in elementary school. Now later in life, yep. They were gay. All the people I've worked with that are gay, and there were a lot of them, they all say they were that way as long as they can remember. This transvestite pedophile bullshit though, that needs to stop. I don't care if you want to dress up in women's clothes, sing karaoke, and get surgeries, but stay away from the kids, don't go into women's spas/bathrooms etc and make people super uncomfortable, and don't ask me to change the English language for you. Thanks.