Getting your shit together

Organizing your life is the most important step before starting to do important things and achieve your goals; putting it in a simple way it's like this: if you don't have an organized and clean kitchen it won't be very easy to cook that great dish you've always wanted to cook, so before you start cooking that dish clean and organize your kitchen so everything will be easier for you when you start cooking.

The main things you must start to organize and consider are three: time, goals and priorities. How you spend your time can help or make it difficult for you to achieve your goals, goals whose achievement will make you accomplish your priorities. Equally, getting everything that doesn't help you and is a waste of time out of your life is very important; by example masturbation that is a senseless waste of your energy, and in that hour that you spend searching the "perfect video" you could've written something like this or learn the basic verbs of a new language among a lot of other things.

The first thing to make clear in your life are your priorities: what do you really want and really is important for you to get and have. Your priorities should be important things that define your life, make a change in the world (have a transcendence) and have a future and viability, likely getting a good income or a having a good family with lots of children; wishing to have millions of dollars to then spend them in prostitutes and drugs may be a priority, but it isn't a good one as you're only living like an hedonistic animal living for the dopamine impulse: your priority should be something that gets the most out of your life and makes your life something important and worthy of being. Try to have a few concise and clear priorities in your life: get the most out of your life with them. Don't know what priorities to have? There are always the main ones: being a great man and having a great family. You can build up your life from that, and add some priorities more based upon what you may want personally. You are your priorities, remember that.

Then there are the goals that are the ways of reaching those priorities: if you want a great family, having enough game to get a good woman, getting a good income to support your family, marry the woman, having children and raising them in the proper way can be your goals to achieve your priority. Plan well what goals you'll make to achieve your priorities as to maximize your productivity and make more efficient your efforts: if you want to learn game reading good books about the topic and then practicing with real women upon that will be a better goal than trying to just talk to woman trying to slowly decipher what to do by yourself. Always investigate well about what you want to get and how to get it so you make good goals.

Then at last is what will define if you'll get your goals now or never: how you manage your time. This is hard for some people as discipline is for some people a hard habit to master, but clearly defining what you're going to do in the day of today and then doing what you have to do from that will help you to make the most of the time you have. Making a clear list of the goals you have and then making a schedule that indicates from when to when you work on certain thing will help you a lot: having your day carefully planned will help you get the most out of it. Procrastination then is the next enemy in your journey to get a good life; try to get out any kind of distraction that could get you out of doing what you have to do, and always stay motivated and determined to do what you have to do.

And then getting out what doesn't help you and is a waste of time is what will help you the most. Vices and addictions don't help you and they are never worth it: be it drugs, masturbation, your cellphone, vidya or whatever that takes your time and doesn't give you anything useful in exchange must be erased from your life. A bit of entertainment likely vidya, music or movies (etc...) when you deserve it for sure will help you relax when you've finished your work, yet keep it just for those times and don't let it become an obsession. For the addictions that for sure will ruin your life like drugs or masturbation never ever touch that stuff and get away from it. Masturbation drains your energy, drugs fuck your health, and both have the same effect of getting you out of reality, effect that makes you come every time you have a problem to masturbation or drugs making you unable to deal with your problems: don't ever do it; if you have a problem don't go to drugs, masturbation, or whatever habit you have but deal with your problems and solve them as that's also a big part of getting your shit together: solving all the problems you might have right now, by yourself,.

Having clear Priorities, doing concise Goals and getting the most out of your time will help you Get your shit together. Also besides organizing your life, organize your house, your space, and organize and clean your body too: groom yourself. Start cultivating good habits and take better decisions according to what you've learned and will learn from your own errors.

Become your best

You have three things that are innate to yourself: your mind, your body and your soul. Your mind is what defines how you act, what you do and how you think; it's your brain and your gut: everything that defines how you think, feel and make choices. Your body is all your muscle and your physical being that moves around and identifies its reality through its own organs (eyes, ears, etc...) to then send that info to the mind; it's your body as such: everything that defines how you'll move and interact with reality in the physical aspect. Then there is your soul that is your ethereal being that's closer to God. Try to make those three things you have the best you can and you'll be the best you can be.

To start with the mind, the best way to make it the better in my opinion is to seek for knowledge that's deeply rooted upon experience rather than upon idealistic utopian bullocks. Start with Stoicism as it will make you more wise and every man should have such knowledge: Marcus Aurelius' "Meditations" is a good book. Read a lot, but read the correct stuff: reading 100 novels won't benefit you the same than a good book on philosophy; remember that your mind is filled with what you read, so read well. Also try to learn the more you can from your own errors. Besides philosophy, also read books that provide you with practical knowledge. What do I want to mean with this? Reading books whose knowledge tell you how to do something that could be of great help is a good idea: reading the basics of how to do a fire might help you in a forest, reading the basics of astronomy might help you to know where you are just looking at the position of the stars. Try to have a lot of knowledge but knowledge that actually helps you: being a nerd that knows a lot about theoretical physics won't help you, but knowing something as simple as information about how to identify poisonous food will do you a greater good. Also dominate your impulses and feelings, and learn to act wise and meticulously.

To make your body better if more easy, yet it requires more effort to do it. It's very easy to increase the capacity of your body: just train with a good routine and you'll get stronger and your muscles bigger with time. Lifting weights is something every man should do, to increase his strength and make himself more beautiful with bigger muscle. Read books like Starting Strength or Convict Conditioning to start getting stronger. I also recommend you doing a lot of sport and gymnastics: it's fun to do it and isn't as demanding as lifting weights yet it'll help you stay fit.

At the end there is making your soul better: this is obtained through inner reflexion and the search for God. You're not an animal, you are something with more transcendence than that: go on a quest for spirituality and find that that is eternal that you've been looking for. Forget the marxist bullocks of "Religion is the opium of the population": for such idea a lot of Christians were killed in the Soviet Union without any remorse. Religion offers a good explanation and a good way to live, if you don't go on extremist mode; look for the light and you'll find it!

As a final word look to make better than what I've said here. Remember that you're the best so getting the best you can and doing the best you can in the best way you can do are rules that you must follow all the time to become the best you can. Perfection is unreachable, yet making that a excuse for your errors is lame: keep going!

I haven't seen a guide like this in TheRedPill sub and neither in poal, so I thought investing a bit of time in writing this post with the hope of at least helping one person instead of lurking senselessly around the internet and wasting time and energy would be a pretty good idea and a pretty good endeavor. If you want to say a recommendation or give a correction there's no problem. Hope you enjoy it. :-) # Getting your shit together Organizing your life is the most important step before starting to do important things and achieve your goals; putting it in a simple way it's like this: if you don't have an organized and clean kitchen it won't be very easy to cook that great dish you've always wanted to cook, so before you start cooking that dish clean and organize your kitchen so everything will be easier for you when you start cooking. The main things you must start to organize and consider are three: time, goals and priorities. How you spend your time can help or make it difficult for you to achieve your goals, goals whose achievement will make you accomplish your priorities. Equally, getting everything that doesn't help you and is a waste of time out of your life is very important; by example masturbation that is a senseless waste of your energy, and in that hour that you spend searching the "perfect video" you could've written something like this or learn the basic verbs of a new language among a lot of other things. The first thing to make clear in your life are your priorities: what do you really want and really is important for you to get and have. Your priorities should be important things that define your life, make a change in the world (have a transcendence) and have a future and viability, likely getting a good income or a having a good family with lots of children; wishing to have millions of dollars to then spend them in prostitutes and drugs may be a priority, but it isn't a good one as you're only living like an hedonistic animal living for the dopamine impulse: your priority should be something that gets the most out of your life and makes your life something important and worthy of being. Try to have a few concise and clear priorities in your life: get the most out of your life with them. Don't know what priorities to have? There are always the main ones: being a great man and having a great family. You can build up your life from that, and add some priorities more based upon what you may want personally. You are your priorities, remember that. Then there are the goals that are the ways of reaching those priorities: if you want a great family, having enough game to get a good woman, getting a good income to support your family, marry the woman, having children and raising them in the proper way can be your goals to achieve your priority. Plan well what goals you'll make to achieve your priorities as to maximize your productivity and make more efficient your efforts: if you want to learn game reading good books about the topic and then practicing with real women upon that will be a better goal than trying to just talk to woman trying to slowly decipher what to do by yourself. Always investigate well about what you want to get and how to get it so you make good goals. Then at last is what will define if you'll get your goals now or never: how you manage your time. This is hard for some people as discipline is for some people a hard habit to master, but clearly defining what you're going to do in the day of today and then doing what you have to do from that will help you to make the most of the time you have. Making a clear list of the goals you have and then making a schedule that indicates from when to when you work on certain thing will help you a lot: having your day carefully planned will help you get the most out of it. Procrastination then is the next enemy in your journey to get a good life; try to get out any kind of distraction that could get you out of doing what you have to do, and always stay motivated and determined to do what you have to do. And then getting out what doesn't help you and is a waste of time is what will help you the most. Vices and addictions don't help you and they are never worth it: be it drugs, masturbation, your cellphone, vidya or whatever that takes your time and doesn't give you anything useful in exchange must be erased from your life. A bit of entertainment likely vidya, music or movies (etc...) when you deserve it for sure will help you relax when you've finished your work, yet keep it just for those times and don't let it become an obsession. For the addictions that for sure will ruin your life like drugs or masturbation never ever touch that stuff and get away from it. Masturbation drains your energy, drugs fuck your health, and both have the same effect of getting you out of reality, effect that makes you come every time you have a problem to masturbation or drugs making you unable to deal with your problems: don't ever do it; if you have a problem don't go to drugs, masturbation, or whatever habit you have but deal with your problems and solve them as that's also a big part of getting your shit together: solving all the problems you might have right now, by yourself,. Having clear Priorities, doing concise Goals and getting the most out of your time will help you Get your shit together. Also besides organizing your life, organize your house, your space, and organize and clean your body too: groom yourself. Start cultivating good habits and take better decisions according to what you've learned and will learn from your own errors. # Become your best You have three things that are innate to yourself: your mind, your body and your soul. Your mind is what defines how you act, what you do and how you think; it's your brain and your gut: everything that defines how you think, feel and make choices. Your body is all your muscle and your physical being that moves around and identifies its reality through its own organs (eyes, ears, etc...) to then send that info to the mind; it's your body as such: everything that defines how you'll move and interact with reality in the physical aspect. Then there is your soul that is your ethereal being that's closer to God. Try to make those three things you have the best you can and you'll be the best you can be. To start with the mind, the best way to make it the better in my opinion is to seek for knowledge that's deeply rooted upon experience rather than upon idealistic utopian bullocks. Start with Stoicism as it will make you more wise and every man should have such knowledge: Marcus Aurelius' "Meditations" is a good book. Read a lot, but read the correct stuff: reading 100 novels won't benefit you the same than a good book on philosophy; remember that your mind is filled with what you read, so read well. Also try to learn the more you can from your own errors. Besides philosophy, also read books that provide you with practical knowledge. What do I want to mean with this? Reading books whose knowledge tell you how to do something that could be of great help is a good idea: reading the basics of how to do a fire might help you in a forest, reading the basics of astronomy might help you to know where you are just looking at the position of the stars. Try to have a lot of knowledge but knowledge that actually helps you: being a nerd that knows a lot about theoretical physics won't help you, but knowing something as simple as information about how to identify poisonous food will do you a greater good. Also dominate your impulses and feelings, and learn to act wise and meticulously. To make your body better if more easy, yet it requires more effort to do it. It's very easy to increase the capacity of your body: just train with a good routine and you'll get stronger and your muscles bigger with time. Lifting weights is something every man should do, to increase his strength and make himself more beautiful with bigger muscle. Read books like Starting Strength or Convict Conditioning to start getting stronger. I also recommend you doing a lot of sport and gymnastics: it's fun to do it and isn't as demanding as lifting weights yet it'll help you stay fit. At the end there is making your soul better: this is obtained through inner reflexion and the search for God. You're not an animal, you are something with more transcendence than that: go on a quest for spirituality and find that that is eternal that you've been looking for. Forget the marxist bullocks of "Religion is the opium of the population": for such idea a lot of Christians were killed in the Soviet Union without any remorse. Religion offers a good explanation and a good way to live, if you don't go on extremist mode; look for the light and you'll find it! As a final word look to make better than what I've said here. Remember that you're the best so getting the best you can and doing the best you can in the best way you can do are rules that you must follow all the time to become the best you can. Perfection is unreachable, yet making that a excuse for your errors is lame: keep going!

Getting your shit together

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