Pro-vaxxers are the only ones thinking in terms of winning and losing "the argument". I was never trying to prove anything to anyone. I just wanted better answers than platitudes of "safe and effective" and never got them so I abstained. I didn't know who was right but it was just about my choices, not proving someone else to be incorrect. I don't need an admission or mea culpa or atonement. Stay out of my business then, and stay out of it now. Go be sad for your own choices somewhere else. I still have no desire to feed your need for attention.