i was young babysitting two little toddlers at church. one was from a visiting family looking for a church. they only fed their child veggies. their son. their son was a bully. the other kid i was watching would sometimes have seizures and i was very worried for her when he would shove her and punch her so i told him if he was mean to her one more time i would give him a spanking. so i did, three spankings for his age like my ma raised me. spare the rod, spoil the child and all. i thought it was in the bible so it was ok. well the kid had a meltdown but he recovered and was okay after that. his parents were mortified and never came back