Women fight for control, but they don't want it. They want strong men, men who can fend of a challenge for control. Ideally they want to see men fighting each other, so that they can pick the strongest man. However, if that isn't an option, they will attack men directly. Feminists are just the worst version of this, women who loath any shred of vulnerability in a man. They only want the fiercest, most abusive men. They are vicious monsters in order to weed out nice guys.