Asian women can be really crazy. The few I knew were parents of guys I knew. They would literally chase them or their husbands with knives when they were pissed. Korean and Chinese. Go to any nail salon run by these Asian women and see how cucked their men are. I'm not saying you'd end up cucked, but being married to an awful woman has it's way of wearing you down. Plus, have you ever heard them bitch in their language? It's like nails on a chalk board.
Can't even tell you to date for a while because they'll be perfectly nice until after the marriage.
I hear you, dude. I’ve had the unfortunate experience of thinking I got lucky with a real-life version of overly-attached girlfriend.
Well... let’s just say the bitch was crazy.
Women, in general, are a game of Russian roulette, imho.
Any relationship is a game of Russian roulette if you invest enough in it. Men are just as crazy, look at all the soyboys and fake chads in the world. That's just what you notice as a man, it gets way more diverse in the levels of crazy when you're trying to find a dependable, sane male that isn't over his head in debt, has a child or is divorced, has considered being gay, is covered in ink or piercings, is addicted to porn, is a habitual liar, is overly controlling, wants to have an open relationship, is obsessed with their self image/physique... Well I could go on and on.
My point is to say that it is just as difficult for a good woman to find a good man. This should make you feel good, because that means that if you're a good man, she's out there looking for you, too.
I don't know how old you are but it took me many tries before I found a good one, and it was after I quit looking. The last one I dated before my husband found me was the exact male version of overly attached girlfriend. I literally had given up on finding anyone, and decided to throw myself into my work when my husband showed up. The only reason my cynicism was broken down was because he was 100% honest about who he was and what he wanted, and so was I.
Anyway. Don't go for rice because wheat is harder to get. Wheat makes better bread. Cultural differences will prevent the connection you deserve. Sure you can do without, but why? Keep yourself open until you find the right one, don't tie yourself up with the wrong one so you miss her.
I regret that I have but one upvote to give. Wholesome af. I appreciate the kind words and I’ll keep them in mind.
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