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Hi all,

i am starting to put my thoughts together about being a white father in america in the link attached.

my premise is an insecurity of the future for white children (mine included) and the lack of positive sentiment around white identity.

by no means am i a writer, so i appreciate any advice and input you all have.

(there are no ads or any shekels to be gained on this for me, i would just be embarrassed with myself if i get to my deathbed and never spoke up)

thank you and i wish you all the best.

Hi all, i am starting to put my thoughts together about being a white father in america in the link attached. my premise is an insecurity of the future for white children (mine included) and the lack of positive sentiment around white identity. by no means am i a writer, so i appreciate any advice and input you all have. (there are no ads or any shekels to be gained on this for me, i would just be embarrassed with myself if i get to my deathbed and never spoke up) thank you and i wish you all the best.

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It's unfortunate this is your complete opinion on the matter. I often see things as black and white so I encourage you to work through that yourself too.

If a women hurt you, I'm sorry, she's a bitch and doesn't deserve you (assuming you are a solid guy).

I believe you can and will find a women who is warm, genuine, decent and overall value add to your life.

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--life IS black and White. Women are not to be trusted.

--women can FAKE being warm and decent, but hypergamy is hardwired into their small brains. She is ALWAYS looking to upgrade.

--after my divorce, every aspect of my life got better. I just wish someone would cook for me when I am too tired from work. But I manage.

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>--life IS black and White. Women are not to be trusted.

Trust is earned and lost individually with me. I agree we live in a reality of duality - but our subjective nature keeps us in shades of gray I think.

>--women can FAKE being warm and decent, but hypergamy is hardwired into their small brains. She is ALWAYS looking to upgrade.

Deception sucks. The concept of upgrading instead of investing sucks. I like to believe we have evolved or been able to manage instincts you refer to. One could say man is ALWAYS looking to impregnate. I am not sure I agree but that would be my inverse to your point.

>--after my divorce, every aspect of my life got better. I just wish someone would cook for me when I am too tired from work. But I manage.

I am glad your life has improved, that is awesome man. Division of duties like cooking is pretty awesome. May you stay well fed!

I am not aware of your personal story but based on these bullets I can begin to guess. Shit sucks man, stay strong and I totally encourage you to be someone who helps others on the matter instead of immediately discouraging what hasn't worked for you. Either way, thanks for the dialogue and I wish you all the best.

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Oh, I'm quite happy. One of my housemates had his ex-gf visit a few weeks ago, it was non-stop nagging and bitching. I was mocking him the whole time. Who needs that shit? And while I do miss sex, masturbation is much less effort. The only roastbeef I'm interested in these days, is to be found at Arby's.