Wife and I are on the same page. Any doctor that refuses our wishes or preforms unrequested actions will have a lot more to worry about than a malpractice suite. Note taken though. I will keep it in mind. Also, need to make sure they are not a jew. That would be a instant red-flag. [edit] To top that off. What did those "Women doctors" think happened for thousands of years that it was not common practice or in large portions of the world where it is STILL not common practice (including a large amount of what is currently the EU).