I somehow can't get mad at the woman. Unless he's being blackmailed behind the scenes it's just too much. If you cook dinner for someone who humiliates you in front of the whole world, if you help them procreate, you deserve it. If you offer a person your wallet it's not a robbery. If you offer another person your ass and cook them dinner afterwards it's not rape. And both would be more dignified than what this man enables her to do.