Ignore those replies that say you are a bad mans for daring to try to tell her she was fucking up. You did the right thing. Pandering to her delusions would have been a fast track to the same rabbit hole of crazy she chose. Women need to hear the word NO more often, and if they don't listen then bam move on ASAP because not only can you not fix that shit but it's not your job.
"Something about the birth control drugs that ravages women and turns them into bitches"
I dated one with the opposite effect. She would rage and throw things and the doctor suggested that the pill would level out her hormones and stop the rages and it did.
The monthly hormone thing with women is very real. It's not subtle. You have to give women a break. It's a hell of a burden.
I am convinced many old religions avoided women on their periods not because they were "unclean" but because they knew that if men hung around them then it could break up marriages because some women just lose it sometimes.
"Many of those women aren't paying for those tattoos in cash. I have a couple of tattoo artist friends and they've both told me how women will offer them sexual favors in exchange for tattoos and they have no qualms with accepting the offer."
Wow. Didn't know this. Of course in this society that makes sense. Plus the women think the tattoo artist guys are hypermasculine and "artists" which they have been trained to love above all else. And they don't view their sex as something to be given carefully but instead have adopted the cheapened "I needed to show I can get this guy" without realizing it just isnt that difficult to get a guy sexually and it isn't an achievement. Of course it's great for horny guys with no family morals.
" They also told me how women get horny in the tattoo chair while they get the tattoos. They get off on it."
I had never considered that. That's a whole different aspect. If it's true then no wonder they run out of space on their bodies.
After a couple of months she started getting ugly garish tattoos. I told her I hated them, that she ruined her body. That she had a beautiful perfect body and didn't need any tattoos enhance herself. Telling her this made her really mad for some reason.
You made her feel impossibly insecure about a change that couldn't be reversed, and planted a seed of self-loathing within her.
What the fuck did you expect to happen?
I told her they are ugly and I don't want to have to see them every time I look at her. I told her she is ruining her body, it's not attractive. I told her I wasn't against her getting tattoos, but please, these are ugly, these are bad, these are bad decisions. She got even more angry. She started getting more tattoos just to spite me. We eventually broke up.
You told the "love of your life" that she was a physically repulsive moron, so she doubled down and owned the choice because it was better than being with someone who looked at her like she was a disgusting idiot he was willing to tolerate.
I mean really, who could have seen THAT coming?
Like fuck dude, how retarded do you have to be to not understand how making someone feel ashamed about themselves will most likely foster resentment?
No, dude, you made the mistake of destroying her self-esteem and forcing her into the position of spiting you and leaving you in order to regain her sense of self-worth. You made it literally impossible for her to feel attractive, valued and respected because she changed her body in a way you found utterly repulsive, and rather than stay in a relationship with someone who is repulsed by her, she was better off leaving you in hopes of finding someone who accepted her chosen appearance changes and made her feel like a sex queen.
You're the one who fucked it up dude, if she was the love of your life then you could have dealt with the tattoos.
You had your head up your ass and were only really thinking of yourself, she figured it out, and you parted ways.
"Caring about your feelings" doesn't include letting you make her feel worthless and then convincing herself to feel thankful you tolerate her stupid choices and repulsive body.
Don't get this twisted, I'm not defending your ex, I literally hate women and couldn't give a fuck less about them, but you are retarded and have a warped, ignorant perception of why things went the way they did.
Women are feelings-driven. I'll say it again: you attacked her self-esteem and made yourself into something she had to prove wrong and escape from in order to re-establish her sense of being valuable and attractive. She might have gotten a stupid tattoo, but you're the one who decided it was cool to take "the love of your life" literally for granted and demean the fuck out of her over a superficial feature because you had a difference in taste.
Own that shit dude, you're not the victim, you shot holes in your own boat and then couldn't figure out why it sank; what she's become in the time after your breakup is irrelevant.
"making someone feel ashamed about themselves will most likely foster resentment?"
You're the retard here, retard. You should feel ashamed. Very ashamed. And if that fosters resentment then boo hoo. Grab your kleenix, find some like minded morons, and have a nice little circle jerk.
That guy did exactly the right thing and if you can't see that then YOU are part of the fucking problem.
Hormonal birth control was invented by this guy:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gregory_Goodwin_Pincus
Perhaps the side effects are not so accidental.
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