Always, even at the risk of sounding "creepy", suggest to young women doing these kinds of things that putting off having kids is the wrong move.
It's difficult when their parents, even the purported Christian ones, approve and push for career and delaying marriage. It seems many of the "virgin brides" of the 80's are vicariously whoring around now through their daughters.
Well I'm glad that you figured out what I was trying to say, seemingly, despite that being a nonsensical word salad. But, maybe. I've always chalked it up to parents not wanting their children to hate them because they're so lonely and need approval from children. It's a shame adults want to "fit in" so often now. Social media has corroded our society in many unseen ways, I'm afraid.
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