Minor note: the human brain doesn't think in negatives. So when we say "we will not lose our home" the brain hears "we will lose our home". It's always best to word things in the positive. "Our pantry will be full, we will be warm in our home, I will protect and care for you and our child" will be more effective. If you can get her involved (even passively) in any anti-vax online groups, she may find some strength in knowing she isn't alone. Women are desperate to belong to the herd, which is why they're so easy to sway with peer pressure. If she knows she is part of a LARGE herd, that will help. Depending on where you're located, there are attorneys starting to gather medical professionals for group legal representation. In Ohio there is a large group and the attorney taking on their case has been advising them along the way (essentially, these hospitals WILL blink, they're just hoping to scare everyone.) Also in Ohio, some hospitals are offering $3,200 per week to nurses if they'll get the jab and go work in Cleveland, Columbus, or Cincinnati - the biggest cities. So things are definitely getting dire for hospitals. Stay strong and continue to be her rock.