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I’m getting made fun of for saying this. It’s ‘normal’ for men to watch it, but if I went off and looked at random dicks I’m pretty sure my husband would be jealous. I would feel like I was cheating too. I faked being fine with it, admitted I wasn’t finally. Yet I’m a joke for suggesting porn is wrong, and it’s ok to tell all our friends and family I got upset about it. They laughed, they don’t get it. I figured someone on here would understand what I’m getting at even though many disagree. I wasn’t gonna bother asking this but the whole world IRL knows anyway. So what’s your opinion, is it wrong to watch porn? Why or why not?

I’m getting made fun of for saying this. It’s ‘normal’ for men to watch it, but if I went off and looked at random dicks I’m pretty sure my husband would be jealous. I would feel like I was cheating too. I faked being fine with it, admitted I wasn’t finally. Yet I’m a joke for suggesting porn is wrong, and it’s ok to tell all our friends and family I got upset about it. They laughed, they don’t get it. I figured someone on here would understand what I’m getting at even though many disagree. I wasn’t gonna bother asking this but the whole world IRL knows anyway. So what’s your opinion, is it wrong to watch porn? Why or why not?

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Let me guess, I'm the Pro-Abortion guy for stating how obviously dumb wrong-think is.

[–] [deleted] 1 pt (edited )

The point is I'm not forcing anything on you. I'm just providing information about the scripture.

If it's not real, you don't need to worry about God, right? In any case, is it really sooo bad to advise people to instil self-restraint when the thoughts arise, instead of after they've fantasised for weeks on end?

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Then I fail to connect this to what I said in the first place. You did not force anything; if anyone did I would not shy from forcing compliance.

Keep providing scripture and don't forget that interpretation can differ.

[–] [deleted] 2 pts

In reddit, you get banned for wrong-think/ offensive speech, and it seemed like you were implying that it was the same here.

Interpretation can differ, yes, that's the problem. Because people have different experiences, inclinations and intellectual capacities. So whenever there is any kind of ambiguity, there tends to be a wide array of interpretations. But I try to limit my own bias and understand it from the perspective of the ones who wrote it. The fact that the translations are often incorrect, does not help matters.