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I've become much better at forgiving and I feel it has helped heal my spirit. There are those that I don't feel deserve forgiveness like pedophiles, but I've found a loophole by just not considering them human. Not to insult by comparing them, but when a dog does something bad like kill or be degenerate, I don't blame the dog because it's an animal, and therefore doesnt need forgiveness, they need training or to be put down (in the case the dog mauled a child or killed another pet or human, only put dogs down for serious agregences.).

But I feel there's some people that hit closer to home, like close friends or family that you came to love and respect, that have done something horrible or wrong to us that could be forgiven, but we could not bring ourselves to do it because it was a serious offence. For example, if your family abandoned you because of the COVID Scam but are trying to re-associate with you acting like nothing happened.

How can you forgive something like that, or how do you handle the internal struggle something like that must cause?

(Note, I am not personally struggling with this particular problem, but I do think it's an important subject that a lot of people struggle with and it needs to be discussed) (Edit: grammar)

I've become much better at forgiving and I feel it has helped heal my spirit. There are those that I don't feel deserve forgiveness like pedophiles, but I've found a loophole by just not considering them human. Not to insult by comparing them, but when a dog does something bad like kill or be degenerate, I don't blame the dog because it's an animal, and therefore doesnt need forgiveness, they need training or to be put down (in the case the dog mauled a child or killed another pet or human, only put dogs down for serious agregences.). But I feel there's some people that hit closer to home, like close friends or family that you came to love and respect, that have done something horrible or wrong to us that could be forgiven, but we could not bring ourselves to do it because it was a serious offence. For example, if your family abandoned you because of the COVID Scam but are trying to re-associate with you acting like nothing happened. How can you forgive something like that, or how do you handle the internal struggle something like that must cause? (Note, I am not personally struggling with this particular problem, but I do think it's an important subject that a lot of people struggle with and it needs to be discussed) (Edit: grammar)

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[–] • 3 pts

I'll forgive to those I believe deserving of it.

To those I do not believe deserving of it I will not forgive and am prepared to execute justice upon.

I believe God wants me to be this way.

[–] • 5 pts

Judge not lest ye be judged yourself is such a shit translation. I love the KJV but in modern English this is entirely wrong.

It really should read "The value by which you judge others is the value by which you shall also be judged."

[–] • 1 pt

WTF so God is going to judge me by the cola of my skeen.

[–] • 2 pts

Well, the commandment was to spread the gospel throughout the entire world. So my assumption is he wants all races and ethnicities (as much as we might dislike it for some groups).

Of course when the pool is muddied by like false teachings, corrupt sects, and a general lack of knowledge of the source material, it's pretty easy to predict the end results.

How many times does a nigger kill, steal, rape, pillage, and other manner of sin, yet claims to be a good Christian boy who goes to church. As if the act of singing a gospel song and listening to a borderline singing nigger who does the exact same thing will somehow excuse their behavior and lifestyle.

And don't even get me started on these "Jews for Jesus" or "Black Hebrew Israelites"

[–] • 1 pt (edited )

He is saying that the better judge you are of others the better the judge will be against you when you die. Justice is not supposed to be forgiving.

[–] [deleted] • 1 pt

From what I can tell from Poal, you are doing God's work.

[–] • 1 pt

I do my best and I truly believe God is on our side.

[–] [deleted] • 1 pt

I think He's on our side as well but the congregation forgets their obligations to God. But I'm sure He see's the efforts of His loyal servants and will wield them against the forces of darkness when the time comes.