I've seen men use several effective approaches:
1) Trusts can be used for this, and will be recommended by lawyers.
2) Stating "I'm not getting divorced" is an option. If you're serious and your fiancee has an IQ above room temperature, this will get the point across that nobody gets to abandon their spouse for Becki the Wonderslut or cash & prizes unless they think The Shining was an instructional PSA.
3) Stating that you will provide for children within your marriage, but will move to someplace that doesnt extradite for child support before paying child support deters broken homes AND "oops".
I've seen men use several effective approaches:
1) Trusts can be used for this, and will be recommended by lawyers.
2) Stating *"I'm not getting divorced"* is an option. If you're serious and your fiancee has an IQ above room temperature, this will get the point across that nobody gets to abandon their spouse for Becki the Wonderslut or cash & prizes unless they think The Shining was an instructional PSA.
3) Stating that you will provide for children within your marriage, but will move to someplace that doesnt extradite for child support before paying child support deters broken homes AND "oops".
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