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Have at it assholes

Have at it assholes

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[–] • 6 pts

Trust funds and real estate/properties that are all owned by the trusts. Pretty nice to me but was an entire slew of research and meetings with CPAs and a couple lawyers to see the best ways to handle things in my favor. Basically on paper I own nothing, am eternally broke, and things are structured to only benefit myself and my children.

Took 2 marriages to give me the encouragement I needed to finally go through with the steps and was a headache while going through the process but I'm glad I did it.

[+] [deleted] • 2 pts
[–] • 5 pts

Take X amount of cash out of every paycheck. Don't tell her. Put it into generic silver. Don't tell her. Hide it away somewhere she doesn't know about and can not find- a wall safe inside your shared residence, perhaps. Don't tell her. Make a will and leave her the stash in the will. Don't tell her.

This way, when you get divorced and don't have a prenuptial agreement that won't be honored by a judge anyway, you have a fall back plan that can be sold off peace meal. Being GENERIC silver, it can quickly be turned back into fiat cash and it will be shielded from inflation. Your local coin store will buy it back. Walk in, say hello, ask "what's spot, what's bid?" Spot is their sell price, bid is what they're buying at. They're close, it won't hurt your wallet.

Go for gold if you're loaded... Generic is the key, don't buy things that are hard to sell. Gold takes up less space, trade the silver out for gold as time goes on, don't be silly.

DON'T TELL A SINGLE SOUL ANYTHING ABOUT IT, EVER!!! The will is insurance that she gets it, leave it with your attorney. A will can always be amended.

Gold luck.

[–] • 3 pts

Just be cautious that hiding assets from a spouse during divorce will absolutely destroy you if found out. It wouldn't just be 50/50, it would all go to her.

[–] • 0 pt

Yes, I know a guy who had 30+ bank accounts for the various businesses, and he got raped when an account with $57 in it, basically long abandoned and forgotten be this well over $10Millionare was discovered.

The ex found it, took him back to court, and was awarded lifetime alimony along with a $2500/month additional alimony over the 8K/5 years she was getting. Don't hide anything.

[–] • 1 pt

Be forewarned that physical bullion is only good liquidity if you are in or near a large enough city to have the coin or jewelry dealers doing enough business to purchase it. I live in a small city and tried to sell some of my silver a few years back and the only places in town willing to purchase it were pawn shops offering less than half fair market spot.

[–] • 1 pt

To add on. The cash withdrawals can be tracked, so you need a plausible reason for their existence. I personally try my best to pay service staff (bars and restaurants) in cash, giving the workers the option to declare tips or not.

Where I'm at, the spot price of silver is two or three drinks (incl tip).

[–] • 0 pt

Depending on your situation, you could pull out $300 or so for a "bi weekly night out with the boys" then buy a case of beer, drink it with your buddies in the woods and use the rest for the silver stash.

[–] • 4 pts

Marry the right woman, form a good family that brings her own assets and property to the marriage. Been with the love of my life for over 25 years, no prenup, and not worried. The one hedge I did, and do have is property and accounts over seas. It's been in my family generations, and the law keeps it with the blood relatives, not by marriage.

[–] • 4 pts

Marry the right woman

  • Same religion
  • Her parents still married (going on 60 yrs)
  • My parents were still married (now dead)

It's a good starting point.

[–] • 2 pts

25 years!!! Glad to hear it

[–] • 3 pts

I didnt, and I am getting divorced raped. Dont be like me, dont get married. Mariage is an obsolete institution run by feminists and jews. Live happy with love, have children, dont get married and save yourself.

[–] • 2 pts (edited )

Honestly, this is the best thing to do imo nowadays. I know it's frowned upon but you can stash away money in a separate account, doesn't have to be 100k but set aside some money your forever fiance/"wife" can't touch or doesn't know about and if something were to happen you have a bit of cash to get a leg up. Set the beneficiary to your children and you're set. You could save some money over a long period of time like a brokerage account or whatever and just let it build a nest egg all on its own. $100 here, $20 there. Whatever it takes.

[–] • 1 pt

Be your own bank with real, physical constitutional money. Lawsuit-proof.

[–] • 2 pts

Sure, but where TF you going to stash that kind of money at? And I know Jew this and Jew that but the only way you're going to outpace inflation is if you invest it. No one got rich from a piggy bank or even a savings account. Like it or not, that's how the game is played. Don't like it, hoard gold like, well you know who.

[–] • 2 pts

Live happy with love, have children, dont get married

I think (((they))) basically legally treat you as married if you act like it, even if it's not official. Check your state laws.

[–] [deleted] • 1 pt

I am the female in the relationship and I've decided I don't need to do paperwork with the state to have a wedding and devote myself to my man. I'm setting myself up so that my man doesn't ever have to worry about divorce rape. It is destroying everything.

One of the most humbling experiences as a women in the trade was sitting at lunch with the men from work listening to divorce rape stories. It really broke my heart to hear such awesome hard working smart dudes were being taken advantage. The poor children too being wielded like a weapon against their father who loves them so much is unbearable to think about.

[–] [deleted] • 0 pt

Texas has common law marriage unfortunately

[–] • 2 pts

Thats fucked up... In that case withdraw cash every week and buy gold coins that you put in a safe at the bank, sign your kids as beneficiary if you die.

[–] • 2 pts

Limited Liability Partnership. Assets are mostly real estate. Me, my kids and my sister and her kids, plus grandkids present and future. Defined as blood relatives of my mother. Spouses and partners are provided for at our discretion through wills that conform to the LLP.

[–] • 2 pts

I was flat broke when I got married, and so was I when I got divorced except I no longer had any friends.

[–] • 2 pts

Don't get married if you're worried about divorce rape. No one should go into a life-long commitment with a plan for it ending.

[–] • 2 pts

I've seen men use several effective approaches:

1) Trusts can be used for this, and will be recommended by lawyers.

2) Stating "I'm not getting divorced" is an option. If you're serious and your fiancee has an IQ above room temperature, this will get the point across that nobody gets to abandon their spouse for Becki the Wonderslut or cash & prizes unless they think The Shining was an instructional PSA.

3) Stating that you will provide for children within your marriage, but will move to someplace that doesnt extradite for child support before paying child support deters broken homes AND "oops".

[–] • 1 pt (edited )

Partial division, as in, only what we earned as a couple gets fractioned.

Also helps to always tell your wife you cannot force her, but if it depends on you, you will never ask for separation.

Also helps her to be religious and adopt the stance that marriages are forever in the Holy Church.

And always have many children. Women keeping busy with kids do not stray away into marrying their jobs instead.

You build a good foundation, and she cannot leave you.

[–] • 1 pt

It depends on your state, but child support laws can take more of your money than asset division. The courts will usually give her full custody and then they will give almost every penny you earn to her until your kids are all 18.

The only defense against this is to not get married and have kids in a jurisdiction with harsh child support laws. California is one of the worst.

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