There is no “the one.” It makes sense to pretend there is for romantic talk purposes after you’ve found one that’s alright.
Came here to say this. You have to find one you connect well enough with, and what “well enough” depends on the individual. Her temperament and yours must mesh, and the collective capacity to compromise must be balanced.
oh, and if someone disagrees with me, that’s his momma talking
Was it destiny you and your wife found each other or just "eh, probability was high we'd meet an alright person someday"?
Depends how you define destiny. It happened this way and didn’t happen another way. Does that mean it was destiny?
Could it have been foreseen if you knew enough cause-and-effect information? Yes.
Does that mean it’s part of a best-of-all-possible-worlds situation? Part of a divine plan? Are the hardships we face just a lesson plan for our immortal souls?
Sounds like wishful thinking to me. More than half of all guys who find “the one” are divorced.
You dont "find" "the one", you choose her and dedicate "the one" to the Lord. Before that happens, all women are just women. You return kindness and respect when given, and you build it from the ground up.
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