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Recently my wife left me for no apparent reason. She even told me that I did nothing wrong. We've been together for about twenty years. We actually met long before that but I was married to someone else then and it was not something I would persue. I don't believe in cheating. I think she has been cheating for a while but I have just been in denial. I consider her to be "the love of my life" but she is already living with another man and I received some divorce papers in the mail that I've hardly looked at. It seems to be some kind of "no fault" deal where what is in her possession is hers etc. Fortunately, my house and land were bought and paid for before we were married so it is not considered community property in my state. I think that I would just die if I didn't have animals that I am responsible for and that I can't just abandon to starve to death. I've just got home from drinking at the VFW but that didn't help. I thought that alcohol might deaden the pain but it didn't work. I know that we are done but that doesn't make it feel any better. I don't expect anyone to solve my problems, I'm just venting.

Recently my wife left me for no apparent reason. She even told me that I did nothing wrong. We've been together for about twenty years. We actually met long before that but I was married to someone else then and it was not something I would persue. I don't believe in cheating. I think she has been cheating for a while but I have just been in denial. I consider her to be "the love of my life" but she is already living with another man and I received some divorce papers in the mail that I've hardly looked at. It seems to be some kind of "no fault" deal where what is in her possession is hers etc. Fortunately, my house and land were bought and paid for before we were married so it is not considered community property in my state. I think that I would just die if I didn't have animals that I am responsible for and that I can't just abandon to starve to death. I've just got home from drinking at the VFW but that didn't help. I thought that alcohol might deaden the pain but it didn't work. I know that we are done but that doesn't make it feel any better. I don't expect anyone to solve my problems, I'm just venting.

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Trust me when I tell you that there is another. Probably not any time soon. Getting over a lost true love is one of the most difficult things you will ever go through. You've probably told yourself "Never Again". But let me tell you, being alone for a couple years really bites ass. A good woman gives you purpose. You will come to find that you need that purpose again. It's hard, I know. But you will get through it even when it seems you just have no reason to. I've been there man. If you ever find that point where you just gotta talk to someone about it, shoot me a dm and we will talk.