Please don't plan on nuking Germany and Croatia over this.
Please don't plan on nuking Germany and Croatia over this.
Well, since you said please...
Well, since you said please...
I'm really sorry to hear that, dude.
It seems to be some kind of "no fault" deal where what is in her possession is hers etc. Fortunately, my house and land were bought and paid for before we were married so it is not considered community property in my state.
First off, get a second set of eyes on that, from an attorney. No matter how much you think the law is in your favor, if she has clever legal council, it isn't
Secondly, alcohol will not help you in this situation.
Lastly, have you considered writing something about it?
I'm really sorry to hear that, dude.
>It seems to be some kind of "no fault" deal where what is in her possession is hers etc. Fortunately, my house and land were bought and paid for before we were married so it is not considered community property in my state.
First off, get a second set of eyes on that, from an attorney. No matter how much you think the law is in your favor, if she has clever legal council, it isn't
Secondly, alcohol will not help you in this situation.
Lastly, have you considered writing something about it?
Yeah, I'm going to find an attorney Monday. My wife just wants me to get it notarized and let it go at that. I don't think so... I will never trust her again. I know alcohol won't help. It helped to be around people who I have something in common with and have my back though. I'm not much of a drinker and I didn't drink much.
Yeah, I'm going to find an attorney Monday. My wife just wants me to get it notarized and let it go at that. I don't think so... I will never trust her again. I know alcohol won't help. It helped to be around people who I have something in common with and have my back though. I'm not much of a drinker and I didn't drink much.
Sorry you have to go through this - sometimes shit hands just get dealt. Everything Theo said is good, and it sounds like you have a decent handle on things. But also consider having a good friend or family member hang out or stay with you for a few days. It will help keep your mind occupied, and they can support you too if needed - especially if you're really upset. Sometimes it's just good to talk.
Sorry you have to go through this - sometimes shit hands just get dealt. Everything Theo said is good, and it sounds like you have a decent handle on things. But also consider having a good friend or family member hang out or stay with you for a few days. It will help keep your mind occupied, and they can support you too if needed - especially if you're really upset. Sometimes it's just good to talk.
But also consider having a good friend or family member hang out or stay with you for a few days. It will help keep your mind occupied, and they can support you too if needed - especially if you're really upset. Sometimes it's just good to talk.
seconding this statement from
>But also consider having a good friend or family member hang out or stay with you for a few days. It will help keep your mind occupied, and they can support you too if needed - especially if you're really upset. Sometimes it's just good to talk.
@Cattarhero seconding this statement from @Fumduck
I had a similar thing. Cost me a lot financially, emotionally, and spiritually. American Law follows English custom. If she packed up and left, that's abandonment.(I found this little jewel out too late) you might see what/if the attorney says. Often, an attorney will do a free consultation. Might be an idea to try a couple, go with your gut from there. Sorry to hear this, it's a shit sandwich all around. Try to moderate the booze, eat right, stay busy, it one to think.
I had a similar thing. Cost me a lot financially, emotionally, and spiritually. American Law follows English custom. If she packed up and left, that's abandonment.(I found this little jewel out too late) you might see what/if the attorney says. Often, an attorney will do a free consultation. Might be an idea to try a couple, go with your gut from there.
Sorry to hear this, it's a shit sandwich all around. Try to moderate the booze, eat right, stay busy, it one to think.
Agreed about getting an opinion. I’d hate to see you lose your land.
Agreed about getting an opinion. I’d hate to see you lose your land.
You don't deserve being with someone who doesn't love you back. Nothing can really heal those wounds but time, so give it time.
Also never forget that it is jews who did this to you. All bad things in the world are happening because of them.
You don't deserve being with someone who doesn't love you back. Nothing can really heal those wounds but time, so give it time.
Also never forget that it is jews who did this to you. All bad things in the world are happening because of them.
Trust me when I tell you that there is another. Probably not any time soon. Getting over a lost true love is one of the most difficult things you will ever go through. You've probably told yourself "Never Again". But let me tell you, being alone for a couple years really bites ass. A good woman gives you purpose. You will come to find that you need that purpose again. It's hard, I know. But you will get through it even when it seems you just have no reason to. I've been there man. If you ever find that point where you just gotta talk to someone about it, shoot me a dm and we will talk.
Trust me when I tell you that there is another. Probably not any time soon. Getting over a lost true love is one of the most difficult things you will ever go through. You've probably told yourself "Never Again". But let me tell you, being alone for a couple years really bites ass. A good woman gives you purpose. You will come to find that you need that purpose again. It's hard, I know. But you will get through it even when it seems you just have no reason to. I've been there man. If you ever find that point where you just gotta talk to someone about it, shoot me a dm and we will talk.
Obligatory, delete Facebook, lawyer up, hit the gym.
With that said I'm sorry, good luck and Godspeed. Try not to lament what you had. Think of this as a renewal and the opportunity to find a younger women with which to have more White children with.
Obligatory, delete Facebook, lawyer up, hit the gym.
With that said I'm sorry, good luck and Godspeed. Try not to lament what you had. Think of this as a renewal and the opportunity to find a younger women with which to have more White children with.
Women show no loyalty. When she said you did nothing wrong believe her. Their nature is evil.
Best of luck. Don't go too heavy on the sauce, it will make things worse.
Women show no loyalty. When she said you did nothing wrong believe her. Their nature is evil.
Best of luck. Don't go too heavy on the sauce, it will make things worse.
I'm sorry you're going through that. I don't have any advice for you that others haven't given already and I'm certain you heard tons of in real life. I can only hope that you find peace and the wound on your heart heals in time. God bless you.
I'm sorry you're going through that. I don't have any advice for you that others haven't given already and I'm certain you heard tons of in real life. I can only hope that you find peace and the wound on your heart heals in time. God bless you.
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