LOL If I were in his shoes, I may have made similar choices. He's happy, healthy, productive, not harming anyone, and is appreciated by the people he surrounds himself with. So, I can't really complain *much*. He's absolutely brilliant but refuses to really apply it. I don't know if he'll settle down or not. But, I'm glad that he's not harming anyone and that he's happy. He could have the world by the balls. He works at his girlfriend's parents grocery operation. (It's more than just a store, it's weird and I don't have time to explain it.) I don't get to decide what he does with his life. I am grateful that he's at least happy and healthy. I do wish he'd finished school. If he'd not gone, instead of going and dropping out, I'd be a little less miffed - but it's not really my choice. It's his life.