I like to think I could limit myself to living on a grand a week, even if I had millions in the bank. Especially once I had all the things I need.
You'd think so, but it's REALLY fucking hard. It requires a great deal of discipline - and the ability to say no. You have to be able to say no to yourself and to other people.
A grand a week sounds like a lot, but it's only 52k per year. So, you're still looking at financing stuff.
Your best bet would be to keep working like you already work - and using that money to pay for extra stuff.
You have to be able to tell friends and family to fuck off.
When I sold my business, I gave everyone in my immediate family a lump sum - with the stipulation being they could never ask for more. (They could still ask for more, and I'd have helped them out - but not like this.)
My sister burned through mid-six figures in under a year and had pretty much nothing to show for it. Nothing... She didn't even have a house to show for it. She should have been able to live on 28k per year - easily. She didn't even have a car or license, so it's not like she bought herself a new car. Seriously, she should have been able to live on 28k a year - easily. Easily!
On the other hand, I don't think my brother has spent a penny of it other than to buy himself a summer car (a fairly inexpensive, but new, Mustang). The rest is banked for retirement which he hopes to do at 60. He's got a wife and a kid. So, he had to be disciplined to not spend it.
Your brother sounds more intelligent than your sister!
I could see blowing it on a home or a car, but to blow it all and have nothing to show for it, that's just dumb.
It's been snowing here all day today.
LOL It hasn't snowed in Maine for a while. We're almost certainly heading home on the 25th - but we'll officially decide on Friday. (It's cheaper to give the flight company 48 hours notice. Much cheaper.)
The front desk brought up a package for me. I got like 100 picks for just a few dollars on AliExpress. They're nylon and most are (intentionally) the thin side as compared to the typical hard picks you get.
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