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Went on a date with this girl. i had cooked at home, made some kind of home cooked meals. got a bit too drunk, tried hugging her and kissed her. she went ballistic over this. i didn't think the date went that badly either, especially given i haven't dated anyone in years now. she was angry because she wanted me to flaunt her in a public place, and she was upset she had spent so much time dressing up and stuff, and i had done very little effort on my side. without going into too much detail, she was still texting me for a while, and even agreed to a second date.

however after a few weeks, she decided she didn't want to date anyone anymore at all, she wants time to sort through her life and stuff. now this is super confusing to me, given the historical context of what she was saying not even the days and weeks before. cynical me however thinks she's actually saying the truth, but using this premise to shit test me into some kind of self inflicted dating break or something. hard to tell honestly, but the behavior came off as extremely neurotic to say the least, and bi polar to some extent.

Whatever it is, I have transcended into this weird metaverse, where I can accurately predict human behavior to an astonishingly high degree. Annoyingly, it makes me resent them even more for being such vindictive, spiteful manipulators

Went on a date with this girl. i had cooked at home, made some kind of home cooked meals. got a bit too drunk, tried hugging her and kissed her. she went ballistic over this. i didn't think the date went that badly either, especially given i haven't dated anyone in years now. she was angry because she wanted me to flaunt her in a public place, and she was upset she had spent so much time dressing up and stuff, and i had done very little effort on my side. without going into too much detail, she was still texting me for a while, and even agreed to a second date. however after a few weeks, she decided she didn't want to date anyone anymore at all, she wants time to sort through her life and stuff. now this is super confusing to me, given the historical context of what she was saying not even the days and weeks before. cynical me however thinks she's actually saying the truth, but using this premise to shit test me into some kind of self inflicted dating break or something. hard to tell honestly, but the behavior came off as extremely neurotic to say the least, and bi polar to some extent. Whatever it is, I have transcended into this weird metaverse, where I can accurately predict human behavior to an astonishingly high degree. Annoyingly, it makes me resent them even more for being such vindictive, spiteful manipulators

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Makes me think some kind of newly minted conservative thot? Not sure if that's a thing, but I would not be surprised

It's a thing. Just look at all the "MAGA girls" on the internet. Thots mold themselves to whomever in their environment they perceive to have the most to offer them. And many thots are realizing that conservative men actually have something to offer them and that traditional roles provide a great deal of security for women. But it's easy to tell if they're just thots looking for their easiest meal ticket, or if they're genuine. Sounds like she was just another thot and not a woman worth your efforts.

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In my case, we're talking about an estate well into the millions by the time I die. She was really fucking convincing though. I'm still confused though, she still has a lot to gain from dating me. At this point, I think her non dating, needing to find herself shtick is a low key way to try and re gain control of the situation, since she realized I couldn't be controlled that easily, compared to a normal person of my age. Which is actually true, when a man has fuck you money to the point they can do whatever they want, they become much much harder to control by external players.

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You're probably right. I have a friend who is well-established in his career and could easily provide for his wife and child on just his income. But his wife insists on competing against him in the same career (different employers) so that she doesn't lose financial control. It's crippling to their home life and childcare is a disaster for them. And she's choosing to do it on purpose just so he can't be truly in charge like a man is supposed to be. It's gross.

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Same problem here, heavily career focused woman, which is not in and of itself a bad thing. Ironically, she would never need to work a day in her life ever again and still afford a very lavish lifestyle on my income alone ( I make well over 200,000/yr now), but the thought of being "tied down" to someone to that level scares her. Which is hilarious since she was complaining she's getting older and she wants kids soon. Women, the eternal retards of the world, makes sense why our ancestors never let them vote or make any sensible decisions