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Went on a date with this girl. i had cooked at home, made some kind of home cooked meals. got a bit too drunk, tried hugging her and kissed her. she went ballistic over this. i didn't think the date went that badly either, especially given i haven't dated anyone in years now. she was angry because she wanted me to flaunt her in a public place, and she was upset she had spent so much time dressing up and stuff, and i had done very little effort on my side. without going into too much detail, she was still texting me for a while, and even agreed to a second date.

however after a few weeks, she decided she didn't want to date anyone anymore at all, she wants time to sort through her life and stuff. now this is super confusing to me, given the historical context of what she was saying not even the days and weeks before. cynical me however thinks she's actually saying the truth, but using this premise to shit test me into some kind of self inflicted dating break or something. hard to tell honestly, but the behavior came off as extremely neurotic to say the least, and bi polar to some extent.

Whatever it is, I have transcended into this weird metaverse, where I can accurately predict human behavior to an astonishingly high degree. Annoyingly, it makes me resent them even more for being such vindictive, spiteful manipulators

Went on a date with this girl. i had cooked at home, made some kind of home cooked meals. got a bit too drunk, tried hugging her and kissed her. she went ballistic over this. i didn't think the date went that badly either, especially given i haven't dated anyone in years now. she was angry because she wanted me to flaunt her in a public place, and she was upset she had spent so much time dressing up and stuff, and i had done very little effort on my side. without going into too much detail, she was still texting me for a while, and even agreed to a second date. however after a few weeks, she decided she didn't want to date anyone anymore at all, she wants time to sort through her life and stuff. now this is super confusing to me, given the historical context of what she was saying not even the days and weeks before. cynical me however thinks she's actually saying the truth, but using this premise to shit test me into some kind of self inflicted dating break or something. hard to tell honestly, but the behavior came off as extremely neurotic to say the least, and bi polar to some extent. Whatever it is, I have transcended into this weird metaverse, where I can accurately predict human behavior to an astonishingly high degree. Annoyingly, it makes me resent them even more for being such vindictive, spiteful manipulators

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sucker. she found someone that'll spend money on her

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See this is weird since I had gifted her some random items she needed, so I highly doubt this was the reason. I think this woman has a Napoleon complex and it shows in her behavior, combined with heavy isolation and typical female neurosis

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Sounds like a shit test alright, and she failed.

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Interested in the theory on this one. I knew a guy who told me that since I was the catch, the woman would have to eventually cave, especially as she hits closer to the wall. This was mind blowing at the time, but it shows the female nature of trying to play with fire. The guy was completely right too, from my perspective, she needs me more than I need her, and she screwed herself over

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still trying to woo thots

bruh

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She told me she was different! I mean she's a nice girl and all, but she has some issues which make me question what her actual ideals are. She claims to be Christian but ignores any prayer requests (I specifically asked to gauge her reaction), and she doesn't really read the Bible. Makes me think some kind of newly minted conservative thot? Not sure if that's a thing, but I would not be surprised given the political landscape. However, I also came to realize that realistically, you can convert a liberal dumbshit pretty easily as well, the mental canvas doesn't matter as much with women

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AWALT, dude

If they are ever not subjugated they get entitled.

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It's weird, because before I came from a somewhat simpy attitude. Now I come from a more alpha attitude to dating, and a no compromise ideal. It's amazing how pissed women get these days when they aren't the ones making the rules to badger their man into submission

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Makes me think some kind of newly minted conservative thot? Not sure if that's a thing, but I would not be surprised

It's a thing. Just look at all the "MAGA girls" on the internet. Thots mold themselves to whomever in their environment they perceive to have the most to offer them. And many thots are realizing that conservative men actually have something to offer them and that traditional roles provide a great deal of security for women. But it's easy to tell if they're just thots looking for their easiest meal ticket, or if they're genuine. Sounds like she was just another thot and not a woman worth your efforts.

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In my case, we're talking about an estate well into the millions by the time I die. She was really fucking convincing though. I'm still confused though, she still has a lot to gain from dating me. At this point, I think her non dating, needing to find herself shtick is a low key way to try and re gain control of the situation, since she realized I couldn't be controlled that easily, compared to a normal person of my age. Which is actually true, when a man has fuck you money to the point they can do whatever they want, they become much much harder to control by external players.