You just need to adjust your mindset and expectations a little. There's so many reasons why the apps are not fun for guys that have nothing to do with you. Even for guys who do well on there it sucks ass, dating apps are just not fun except the rare times when they are. Also women hate them too, part of the reason some women act like cunts on there is because they're also miserable dating via apps. But once you get to in-person it's more like just a normal date. You just need to monitor yourself while you're using it, and pay attention if you get mad or frustrated or start getting expectations about some broad you haven't met yet and check yourself every time. It's no big deal and it's very normal for most interactions to fall flat. You're a man, this does not faze you. And remember, nobody can get a sense of who someone is over text. That goes for them AND us. They're as frustrated with us as we are with them on there I know this for a fact.