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This one is weird, so i knew this one woman. By her words, she really liked me. But because the first date didn't go well, she needed to re evaluate her entire life. Now I don't mind that part, but it just seems psychotic to me? So because I only check off 98/100 of her boxes, she would rather be alone than to compromise? I remember when I was with my wife (2010 or so when we first started dating), dating was NOT this messed up, and women could understand at this point that there was always a level of compromise required to make a relationship work.

This one is weird, so i knew this one woman. By her words, she really liked me. But because the first date didn't go well, she needed to re evaluate her entire life. Now I don't mind that part, but it just seems psychotic to me? So because I only check off 98/100 of her boxes, she would rather be alone than to compromise? I remember when I was with my wife (2010 or so when we first started dating), dating was NOT this messed up, and women could understand at this point that there was always a level of compromise required to make a relationship work.

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Read an article about a woman who asks the barman to send drinks to table when she's on a date, and pretend they are from other men. Also sends herself flowers.

First thought was batshit, but maybe she is on to something. Maybe faking social media isn't a bad idea.

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As messed up as it sounds, I can kind of see the appeal of white dudes dating Asian women, kind of. It's not good in the long run for the white race, but it does help the Asian one. On the other hand, I'm sure even Asian women have their fair shares of problems as well.

In this case, I think my problem is the idea the woman has to supersede the man in ability, it's something I've noticed a lot more these days with women, is that they see a relationship as some kind of war between them and you. And of course, it isn't, but they still treat it as such. I don't really want to date someone who sees me as some kind of battle trophy.

Ironically, what I find really weird, is this woman would have a higher chance of achieving her goals by settling down and using the man's money and resources, but instead they see it as a handout or ceding defeat. It's just super fucking weird